Religious Exploration & Faith Development Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at White Plains February 5, 2023 2022-2023 RE Theme: Unitarian Universalist Identity Overview of the Year & Upcoming Schedule View past newsletters at bit.ly/CUUCRENews
Tomorrow: Saturday, February 4
Families for HOPE Tomorrow!
Sat 4 Feb, 10:30-11:15am at CUUC
RE families will gather tomorrow to to prepare 70 to-go breakfasts and lunches for HOPE Community Services in New Rochelle. This is a great way for youth to join in and fulfill community service hours commitments. Those participating can bring individual-sized food items such as shelf-stable milk, juice, water, fruit cups, and soft granola bars, as well as loaves of bread. We also need frozen items such as French toast, pancakes, waffles, frozen sausages or patties (no pork). This is a monthly activity. Please email Christine Haran to coordinate groceries, christineharan@yahoo.com.
Words Have Power Youth-Led Event: Movie & Discussion
Sat 4 Feb, 11:00am-3:00pm
at the Jacob Burns Film Center, Pleasantville
WYA members & members of local youth group Keepers of the Dream invite you to our community movie screening of the movie “Till,” about Emmett Till (PG-13). It will be followed by a panel discussion led by the teens. Families are welcome! (Families welcome!). Register here.
1st Saturday PlaceKeeping Canceled
Due to the frigid weather forecast for Saturday, the 1st Saturday PlaceKeeping practice is canceled. Contact: Bice Wilson, bicewilson@gmail.com.
Spotlight
Gender Identity Support & Resources for Parents/Caregivers
This Sunday, Feb 5, 11:20am, Room 41 (green hallway)
Sunday after worship and RE, we invite parents and caregivers of young people who are exploring their gender identity (e.g., nonbinary, gender nonconforming, transgender) to meet for discussion and support resources.
The leaders of Center Lane's TransParentcy group will guide our discussion. If you have a young person at any point of this journey, please feel welcome to join us. This gathering is for parents and caregivers. We will explore support for youth separately. Please make yourselves a quick brunch plate and head to classroom 41. We will start as soon as possible after worship and RE. Contact Tracy, cuucwptracy@gmail.com.
Young Voices in Worship
In an initial review of the report from the Self-Assessment Committee, the RE Council noted congregants' interest in having young voices in worship. We think that's a great idea and Rev. Meredith agrees! We are starting by inviting young people to read the chalice lighting and extinguishing words Sunday, February 19 and 26. These are whole congregation worship Sundays so young people are in the sanctuary for the whole service. To volunteer, contact Tracy, cuucwptracy@gmail.com.
1st-3rd Grade OWL Homelinks
After each class, teachers send children home with a Homelinks sheet that offers information and suggestions for conversations at home. This is an important part of establishing early communication between parent/caregiver and child about health, safety, and relationships. We also share them here:
1st-7th Grade Activity Room 41, Green Hallway
Leaders: Kathleen K, Anne Marie D, and Tracy B
1st-7th graders will fill backpacks with supplies donated from the congregation then load them for delivery. Thanks to you, our sponsors, the Hunger & Homelessness team now has plenty of backpacks to donate to Next Generation Youth Services, Lifting Up Westchester!
Children in 3rd grade and younger must be picked up in their classrooms. Please do so right after worship so RE leaders can go to other activities.
8th-12th Grade Youth Group Room 14, Red Hallway
Leaders: Daniel and Cyndi T
Youth will begin by helping assemble backpacks in room 41, then meet for Youth Group to build community and discuss future programming.
10:00am Worship In Person and Online
"Cultivating Ourselves" ~ Rev. Meredith Garmon
Exploring our theme for February: Self-Cultivation. What is it we are doing when we cultivate a Self?
Visit our website for the Sunday order of service. We continue to wear masks for Sunday morning worship and RE in the building. Revisit past services anytime at youtube.com/TheLiberalPulpit and subscribe!
Click here to join the live-stream of our Sunday Worship or phone in (audio only): 646-876-9923 · Webinar: 761 321 991 · Passcode: 468468. Everyone live-streaming the service is invited to stay online afterward to socialize on Zoom. Log in to bit.ly/CUUC-CoffeeHour or phone: 929-436-2866. Meeting: 336 956 2210, Passcode: 468468.
RE Mid-Year Check-In
After Worship and RE, Fellowship Hall During Brunch
RE Council members invite you to sit at the “RE Mid-Year Check-In” table during brunch in Fellowship Hall to ask questions, share feedback about how RE is going this year, or explore ways to get involved. We look forward to hearing from you!
Gender Identity Support & Resources for Parents/Caregivers
After Worship and RE (11:20am), Room 41
Sunday after worship and RE, we invite parents and caregivers of young people who are exploring their gender identity (e.g., nonbinary, gender nonconforming, transgender) to meet for discussion and support resources. Make a bunch plate and join us in classroom 41. Additional information above.
Upcoming Schedule
Religious Exploration
Sat Feb 4, 10:30am:10:30am RE/Meals for HOPE. Sun Feb 5:K class with Tracy, 1st-12th grade Social Justice program. After worship:Mid-year RE check-in with families during the CUUC Brunch + Discussion with parents/caregivers of young people who are exploring gender identity.
Fri Feb 10: 4tn-5th & 6th-7th Our Whole Lives classes begin at CUUC, as well as the parent OWL class. Sun Feb 12: 1st-7th grade Chapel with Tracy and 8th-12th grade Youth Group. OWL youth attend Youth Group. After worship: CUUC Self-Assessment Report Forum. Tue Feb 14, 7pm (will reschedule): Parents & Caregivers of MS & HS Youth Covenant Group. Sun Feb 19: Whole Congregation Worship. RE does not meet. (School holiday) Sun Feb 26: Whole Congregation Worship. RE does not meet. (School holiday)
4th-5th & 6th-7th OWL Begins Next Friday!
Fri 10 Feb, 6:00-9:00pm at CUUC
OWL classes for 4th-7th graders begin next week. This is a wonderful curriculum, supporting healthy decision making and self-esteem, understanding dynamics in relationships, affirming all sexual orientations and gender identities, and encouraging communication between parents and their children.
After each class, teachers send children home with a Homelinks sheet that offers information and suggestions for conversations at home. This is an important part of establishing early communication between parent/caregiver and child about health, safety, and relationships. We will also share them here.
OWL for Parents & Cargivers Begins Next Friday!
Fri 10 Feb, 6:00-9:00pm at CUUC
We are offering parents the opportunity to reflect on how you would like to support your young people in healthy decision making and nurturing open communication. Parents and Caregivers as Sexuality Educators is an important companion to our OWL classes for children and youth. Parents may participate even if you do not have a child currently in OWL. Contact Tracy, cuucwptracy@gmail.com.
Community
Update on Ministerial Transition
After ten years, Rev. Meredith Garmon will be retiring from CUUC at the end of July. The ministerial search process to find our next settled minister is well underway. A lot is happening, including plans for a celebration honoring Rev. Meredith, an upcoming self-assessment report forum, a website upgrade, the creation of our new Search Formation Team, and more. Click here for an Update on Ministerial Transition letter from Board Chair Creighton Cray, detailing all that we are doing.
A New Refugee Family is Coming
As a member congregation of the Interfaith Council for New Americans Westchester (ICNAW), CUUC is excited to once again announce that we have been asked to help resettle a new refugee family in the coming months. Click here to read a letter from the ICNAW team, with a link to donate. Contributions to ICNAW may also be made by sending a check to CUUC with "ICNAW" in the memo line. Contact: Jane Dixon (lilrhodie@gmail.com) and Robin Rocchi (robinandal@verizon.net)
Self-Assessment Forum
Self-Assessment Report, Follow-up Q&A Forum
Sun Feb 12, 11:30am, Fellowship Hall
The CUUC Congregational Self-Assessment Committee has completed their report, from the thoughts, opinions, and ideas you have shared with us over the past 6 months. We encourage everyone to read the 14-page Summary Report and consider ways we can implement its recommendations. Please plan to join us at the follow-up forum on Feb 12, to discuss your ideas and share your questions.
Congregation Forum Ministerial Search Process
Sun Mar 5 in Fellowship Hall at 11:30am
Mon Mar 13 online in Zoom 7899
The CUUC Minister Search Formation team, which creates the search committee for our new minister, has been formed. They will update the congregation on their progress each month during the Our Congregation part of the worship service. The team will also host both an in-person and an online Congregation Forum to discuss the ministerial search process and to answer your questions. Save the date! Contact: Creighton Cray (creighton.cray@gmail.com)
Community Conversation Exploring the Future of RE at CUUC
Sun, May 7, 11:30am, Fellowship Hall and Zoom 8428
Times are changing, as are family needs and schedules. Join members of the RE Council and Tracy for a visioning discussion about the future of RE at CUUC. We will discuss feedback shared by the Self-Assessment Committee from the congregational survey, then explore what Religious Exploration and faith development might look like here in the coming years. It is exciting to think about what we can build together! Contact Tracy B, cuucwptracy@gmail.com.
Tracy Breneman, Director of Religious Exploration and Faith Development, cuucwptracy@gmail.com
Community Unitarian Universalist Congregation at White Plains
468 Rosedale Ave · White Plains, NY 10605-5419
When I first saw the Bill Murray and Andie MacDowell film, "Groundhog Day" in was 1993 and I was just a little more than half the age I am now. I hadn't started seminary -- hadn't begun Zen practice. I was a philosophy professor. Yet the film moved me. It elevated me, somehow. I remember that about a week after I'd seen it, I was speaking to a colleague and said that I'd been in a much better mood for days after seeing that film.
Every year now, on Feb 3, I wake up and take note of the fact that I am not re-living Feb 2 over and over. I made it through another Groundhog Day. I am not sure whether to feel relieved or disappointed -- but it feels somehow significant.
But what if it weren't I, but someone else who re-lives Feb 2 thousands of times? It would feel like the first and only time through the day for me. I might try, for their sake, to do something different and surprising, but whatever I might think was surprising this time was probably exactly what I would have thought surprising all the other times.
I wouldn't be able to surprise -- but the person re-living the day would. In fact, if it was their thousandth time to live that day, they'd likely be looking for a way to make it different. So I tell myself I might encounter some weirdness on Groundhog Day. What should I do? How should I respond? It seems to be the best course is to follow the principles of improv: go with it, build on the weirdness, don't do any correcting, but step into the reality being presented.
It’s time again for our Ecospiritual practice for this month – brought to you by Community UU’s Environmental Practices Social Justice Team: "Face. Embrace. Transcend."
Evolution gave us some things our ancestors needed, but bring us to harm. Cravings for sugary and fatty foods served our ancestors well in the eons before the invention of donuts, but now they undermine our health and well-being. Aggression and fight-or-flight responses were helpful in our prehistoric past, but are not well suited for modern life.
Evolution also gave us these amazingly collaborative brains that build on each other to develop our fantastically intricate interconnected coordinated modern civilization. By recognizing all aspects of our nature, we can better manage those aspects with limited functionality for the modern world.
To create healthy communities, and to heal ourselves as individuals and as a society, we must face, embrace, and transcend: face up to the parts of our evolutionary legacy that don’t fit modern times; embrace and build upon the helpful aspects of our evolved nature, and transcend the aspects of our evolutionary heritage that limit our vision.
Ecospiritual practices for this month include, first, journal about a shadow of yours – how it might have been helpful in the past and what’s now problematic about it. Second, highlight your loving nature by putting together a collage of photos of the people who you’ve loved and have loved you the most deeply. Finally, sit quietly outside noticing what your senses detect, and then reflecting on what might be there that you can’t detect – greenhouse gases, radiation, air toxins.
For details on these, as well as group activities for your Ecospiritual group, see the full post: "Face, Embrace, Transcend."
Here it is, your... MOMENT OF ZEN
#144: Bowing
"Humiliate," "humility," and "humble" all originate from the Latin humus, meaning Earth (hence, lowly, on the ground). "Human" (earthling, earthly being) also comes from humus
So it's worth remembering, that when Buddha was questioned on what authority he had to be teaching as he did, he responded by placing a pointing finger on the Earth.
Case
Gray Wolf spoke up after zazen one evening and said, "Isn't it undignified to bow before the Buddha? I always feel rather humiliated."
Raven said, "Not enough."
Welcome to February! This morning’s musical selections
include a seasonal greeting from Tchaikovsky’s cycle of monthly pieces and a
tribute to the work of composers of the African Diaspora in honor of Black
History Month. Read on for programming details, and stay tuned for spoken introductions.
Gathering Music: Adam Kent, piano
From Cinnamon Grove,
IV. Allegretto “Oh, the Winter’ll soon
be over, children, Yes, my Lord!”
R. Nathaniel Dett
February, Op. 37, No. 2
Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky
Opening Music: Take Nabandji
Traditional South
East African, arr. by Samuel Coleridge-Taylor
Meditation:
“Sunrise, Sunset” from Fiddler on the Roof
Jerry
Bock
Offertory:
The Easy Winners
Scott Joplin
Interlude:
“We’ll Make Our Garden Grow”* from Candide
Leonard Bernstein
* CANDIDE
You've been a fool
And so have I,
But come and be my wife.
And let us try,
Before we die,
To make some sense of life.
We're neither pure, nor wise, nor good
We'll do the best we know.
We'll build our house and chop our wood
And make our garden grow...
And make our garden grow.
CUNEGONDE
I thought the world
Was sugar cake
For so our master said.
But, now I'll teach
My hands to bake
Our loaf of daily bread.
CANDIDE AND CUNEGONDE
We're neither pure, nor wise, nor good
We'll do the best we know.
We'll build our house and chop our wood
And make our garden grow...
And make our garden grow.
(ensemble enters in gardening gear and a cow walks on)
CANDIDE, CUNEGONDE, MAXIMILLIAN, PAQUETTE, OLD LADY, DR. PANGLOSS
Let dreamers dream
What worlds they please
Those Edens can't be found.
The sweetest flowers,
The fairest trees
Are grown in solid ground.
ENSEMBLE (a cappella)
We're neither pure, nor wise, nor good
We'll do the best we know.
We'll build our house and chop our wood
And make our garden grow.
And make our garden grow!